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Have you ever wondered why you are struggling manifest your dreams? Did you know that by increasing your self-worth you can become magnetic?
We can only manifest things into our lives if we truly feel like we are worthy of them!
This is something I didn’t really get for a long time. I thought if I did all the steps to manifesting my dreams, they would just come to me.
What I didn’t realise was, I didn’t feel worthy.
I had low self-worth.
So no matter how much I visualised, said affirmations or tried to think positively, things just weren’t happening for me.
It wasn’t until I discovered that if I didn’t increase my self-worth I wouldn’t be able to manifest the things I want, that things started to change.
Before you can manifest something into your life, you have to believe you are worthy of it. You need to get into vibrational alignment by knowing you are worthy.
I’ve been working on my self-worth for years now but I would say that it has only been the last 10 months that I have actually made great changes. Here are some of the things that have helped me increase my self-worth.
Start Believing in Yourself
I realised that I didn’t really believe in myself. I had so many limiting beliefs about myself that I couldn’t seem to shift. So I started making goals every month and then writing down every limiting belief I had around them.
I use EFT a lot to clear these beliefs.
But sometimes you also have to be brave and just go after your dreams.
Like feel the fear and do it anyway.
I love to write down all my achievements, no matter how small, to remind myself that I am capable of being successful.
I also remind myself that I can do it! It’s a great affirmation to get yourself motivated to take action. The more action you take, the more results you will see, therefore the more you will believe in yourself.
But you have to notice how powerful you are!
You could be doing so many great things in life but if you don’t notice them, you will never believe you are capable.
Believe that you can put anything you put your mind to.
Talk Positively About Yourself
Let go of talking about yourself in a negative way. When I first wanted to change the way I spoke to myself, I just listened to my mind for a few days. I realised I would say so many negative things about myself.
I started listing them and creating new affirmations about myself.
Start telling yourself that you are amazing or use an afformation, like “why am I so amazing”.
If we say positive things to ourselves regularly, we will start to believe them. Remember what we put our focus on grows, so the more positive you are about yourself, the more positive you will feel about yourself.
Also big yourself up, we can be so quick to say things like “I’m so forgetful” or “I’m just not smart enough”.
Turn it around, think of it as a self-fulfilling prophecy, the more you tell yourself something, the more you become it!!
Stop Beating Yourself up
This is one that I find the hardest. Sometimes I make mistakes or things go wrong, I’m only human!
And I find that women tend to beat themselves up a lot more. We put so many expectations on ourselves and when we can’t do it all or we make a mistake, we beat ourselves up.
So when start beating yourself up, think about what you can learn from the situation. How can you grow from this?
Learning from our mistakes gives them meaning and purpose.
Be gentle on yourself as well. I find if I’m beating myself up a lot, I make sure I get some self-care it. See a friend, talk it over and believe what they say to you (as long as it’s supportive). We are so good at helping our friends and giving them support.
However, when it comes to ourselves, we can be really hard on ourselves. So when a friend tells you how you did your best, or things will get better, believe them.
Try and think about what you would say to a friend in a similar situation. Sometimes I write it down and read it back to myself, kinda like a pep talk!
Remember, no one is perfect and we are here to learn!!
Reprogram Your Subconscious
A great tool I have found that helps you increase your self-worth is to reprogram our subconscious. So many beliefs are hidden in our subconscious, so we aren’t even aware of what they are.
I started doing the To Be Magnetic daily reprogramming exercises about 3 months ago and I’ve seen a huge difference. They help you create new neural pathways in your mind. [You can get $20 off The Pathway by using the PROMO code REFERRAL20 HERE]
When I first did the Unblocked Inner Child, I was able to be a peace with so much of my childhood. As I had a very traumatic childhood, being able to let go of some of the pain has made a huge difference in my healing journey.
Doing this work isn’t easy, it brings up a lot of emotions and hidden pain but it’s a huge relief to let it go.
Lacy believes our ability to manifest is down to our self-worth and I agree.
Working on increasing your self-worth will increase your manifesting skills!
These are some of the ways I have increased my self-worth, that has helped me manifest more into my life. Let me know in the comments below some of the ways you have increased your self-worth!